Specialist Couples Therapy
Working with Relationship Complexity
Relationships break down in predictable ways. The same arguments resurface. Distance grows despite good intentions. One partner has already half-left, while the other is still fighting to stay. Betrayal shatters trust that took years to build.
These patterns have roots. Understanding them—really understanding them, not just labelling them—opens possibilities that weren’t visible before.
My work helps couples see what’s actually happening between them, trace it to its sources, and create genuine change rather than temporary fixes.
How We Work Together
I’ve structured my practice around what actually creates change—not what’s conventional.
Extended Sessions (75-120 minutes)
Fifty minutes is rarely enough. Patterns need time to emerge. Understanding needs space to develop. Extended sessions allow us to work with what’s actually happening rather than just talking about what happened last week.
Intensive Programmes (1-2 days)
For couples in crisis or those who want accelerated depth, intensive formats create momentum that weekly sessions rarely achieve. We work for 4-5 hours per day, combining individual and couples sessions. The continuity allows us to move through material that would take months in a traditional format.
Ongoing Work
For couples committed to deeper transformation, longer-term engagement allows genuine change to unfold and integrate. Weekly or fortnightly sessions, in person or online.
Programme Options
Foundation Programme (3 hours) Initial assessment to identify core patterns and determine the right path forward. Two individual sessions followed by a couples session.
Accelerated Programme (1–2 days) Intensive immersion for couples in crisis or seeking accelerated depth. Combines individual and couples work across consecutive days.
Progressive Programme (ongoing) Weekly or fortnightly sessions for sustained therapeutic engagement. In-person or online.
Discernment Counselling (3 hours) Specialised format for couples where one partner is considering leaving. Focuses on gaining clarity rather than solving problems.
The Territory We Cover
Infidelity and betrayal—rebuilding trust when it’s been shattered. Chronic conflict—breaking cycles that have become entrenched. Emotional distance—reconnecting when you’ve become strangers sharing a life. Stay-or-leave decisions—finding clarity when you’re at a crossroads. Life transitions—navigating changes that strain even strong relationships. Intimacy and desire—addressing what’s gone missing. Neurodiversity in relationships—creating understanding across different ways of being.
Your Investment
This work isn’t inexpensive. My fees reflect nearly two decades of specialised experience, extensive training, and the focused attention you receive.
But consider what’s at stake. The cost of a relationship continuing to deteriorate—emotionally, professionally, and in terms of what it means for your children and your future—typically far exceeds the investment in work that actually addresses what’s wrong.
Getting Started
A 20-minute consultation gives us space to discuss your situation and explore whether this approach fits what you’re looking for. There’s no obligation—just a conversation.
Intensive Couples Therapy When Momentum Matters
Private Client Intensive Couples Therapy
When weekly sessions aren’t enough
The Accelerated Programme offers something different from traditional therapy: sustained focus across one or two days, allowing us to work with your relationship in real time rather than reconstructing last week’s conflict from memory.
What the Intensive Includes
- 4–5 hours of therapeutic work per day
- Individual sessions for each partner (understanding your separate contributions)
- Joint sessions (working with the dynamic between you)
- Structured breaks that allow integration
- Follow-up session(s) to consolidate progress
How It Works
The intensive can be scheduled as consecutive days or spread across a month, depending on your availability. We’ll begin with individual consultations before the intensive itself—this ensures I understand each partner’s perspective before we work together.
Available at my Wimpole Street practice in London, at a location of your choice in the UK, or internationally.
Who This Is For
- Couples in acute crisis who can’t wait for weekly sessions to accumulate
- Partners flying in from overseas where ongoing weekly work isn’t practical
- High-achieving professionals whose schedules don’t accommodate traditional therapy
- Couples who’ve tried weekly therapy without breakthrough and want a different approach
What Makes It Different
Momentum matters. In weekly therapy, you often spend the first twenty minutes reconnecting with where you left off. In an intensive, we build continuously—each conversation flows into the next. Patterns that would take months to surface in traditional therapy often become visible within hours.
The Accelerated Programme was developed in collaboration with The Couples Institute of California.
Foundation Programme: A Starting Point
Not sure whether an intensive is right for you? The Foundation Programme (3 hours) offers a comprehensive assessment: two individual consultations followed by a couples session. This helps us identify core patterns, understand what’s driving them, and determine whether intensive work, ongoing sessions, or another path makes most sense.
Discernment Counselling: When You’re at a Crossroads
If one partner is leaning toward leaving while the other wants to repair, traditional couples therapy often fails—it assumes both partners are committed to the relationship. Discernment Counselling is designed for exactly this situation. Across three hours, we focus on clarity rather than problem-solving: understanding how you got here, what reconciliation would require, and whether both partners are willing to do that work.
Possible outcomes include commitment to a six-month reconciliation effort, separation with greater understanding, or choosing to remain in the current situation with clearer eyes.
Couples Therapy
Much of the joy and pain in life is experienced in our relationships. Couple therapy can be one of the most significant investments in your health and well-being, as well as for your partner and family. My unique approach will help you navigate the most challenging relationship crisis.
Divorce Support
Divorce is a life-changing experience, and many forces can line up against you. It does not need to be this way! I have worked with many couples to navigate this challenging process, help them process grief, and create a collaborative outcome that enables you and your family to emerge stronger and more empowered.
Discernment Counselling
Suppose your relationship is on the brink of collapse and one partner has left or is thinking about leaving. In that case, discernment counselling offers a powerful alternative to couples therapy, focusing on gaining clarity and confidence about the decision to either stay or go.
Neurodiverse Couples Therapy
Are you experiencing the confusion and frustration that come with a neurodiverse relationship? I can help create a safe space for neurodiverse couples to gain a deeper understanding and appreciation of each other by exploring different perspectives and learning how to make a flourishing, supportive partnership.
More Counselling Services
Not every relationship fits a traditional model, and to be honest, not every therapist is equipped to navigate the complexities that can arise.
I offer specialised support for individuals and families facing nuanced challenges, including high-profile couples balancing public and private roles, individuals exploring intimacy or healing from addiction, and families navigating generational conflict or blended structures.
Whether you’re seeking clarity on your own, supporting a loved one in crisis, or working within a non-traditional partnership, I bring both experience, confidentiality, and compassion to help you move forward with confidence and care.
Entrepreneurial and High-Profile Couples
I have extensive experience working with entrepreneurial, creative and high-profile couples in London, New York, San Jose, Los Angeles and Dubai. I understand the unique challenges of your situation and the requirement for confidentiality, discretion and protection of your privacy.
Sexual Intimacy and Connection
Sex and sexuality are natural, healthy aspects of life! They also help develop a sense of self-identity and a deep connection in a relationship. I believe that it is vital that partners explore what is important to them and what they need and want in the intimate space they share.
Addiction Therapy and Recovery Support
Don’t allow addictive behaviours to consume your marriage. The pain of trauma often causes substance misuse and compulsive sexual behaviour (sex addiction). The past can show up in your relationship in unexpected ways. The process of recovery heals the mind, body and spirit.
Marriage Preparation (Pre-Marriage Counselling)
Pre-marriage counselling and Coaching can improve your chances of success by over 30%. Create a lasting and loving marriage by tackling hidden issues and building a secure and solid relationship foundation. Enrich your most crucial partnership before you say “I do”!
Family Business Relationships
Family businesses often encounter challenges when the boundaries of personal and business conflict become blurred. When this unresolved conflict infects a business environment, the impact is felt in reduced productivity and profits. I help navigate these conflicts to achieve more harmony at home and at work.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do you offer therapy in person or online?
Both. I offer sessions in my London office or online via secure video calls. Couple Intensives may also be arranged at off-site venues globally.
Do you work with individuals as well as couples?
Yes. I support individuals navigating relational challenges such as grief, anxiety, infidelity, or separation, with or without their partner present.
How do I know which service is right for me?
That’s what the complimentary consultation is for. During our initial 20-minute call, I’ll learn more about your situation and guide you toward the service that best aligns with your needs and goals.
What if my partner doesn’t want to attend therapy?
You can still begin with individual relationship therapy. In many cases, one partner doing reflective work can begin to shift the dynamic.
How do I schedule my complimentary consultation?
Visit this page to request a 20-minute introductory session.
What’s the difference between traditional couples therapy and a Couple Intensive?
Traditional couples therapy is “progressive” and typically scheduled weekly or fortnightly, while the “Accelerated” Couple Intensive condenses several months of treatment into a focused three-day experience. The Intensive is ideal for couples in crisis or those seeking accelerated progress.
My partner isn’t sure they want to continue the relationship. Can therapy still help?
Yes—this is a common and delicate situation. In these cases, I often recommend Discernment Counselling, a structured, short-term approach designed to help both partners gain clarity about the future of the relationship.
Do you work with LGBTQ+ couples and individuals?
Yes. I welcome and support clients from all backgrounds, including LGBTQ+ partnerships, blended families, and those navigating alternative relationship structures.
What if we’ve already tried couples therapy?
Many of my clients come to me after previous therapy attempts that didn’t lead to lasting change. My approach is structured, directive, and tailored to the unique dynamics of each couple, often uncovering new insights and forward movement where others have stalled.